When you first find out you're pregnant.....after the initial rush of emotions with your partner, the first big question is "who are you going to tell and when?" My D was adamant he didn't want anyone to know until I'm 12 Weeks. Not uncommon, but....no-one?? Not my best mate, not my mum, not other friends who I know can provide useful advice? No...no-one. Argh. Keeping mum is hard to do.